Consulting
(Coercive Control & Litigation Discovery)
Benefits of Consulting
We dive deeper into coercive control/domestic abuse as well as other relational, systems, and institutional abuse awareness.
We will recognize issues and problems, and direct and plan solutions.
You will gain sovereignty of yourself
You will gain a sense of self agency again
You will develop Resilience
You will develop Faith (Trust in Yourself)
You will receive support and external resources
You will receive assistance with legal discovery including evidence gathering, mapping perpertrator patterns, and documentation in your legal case
You will receive all the benefits of therapeutic and/or trauma coaching with the combined sessions in addition to coercive control/domestic abuse as well as other relational, systems, and institutional abuse awareness and recovery methodologies.
Many women and girls are not aware they are in coercively controlling relationships; how dangerous these abusers are, how to escape, or how to heal from the abuses. This in turn creates complex trauma and can affect their lives in negative ways and perpetuate problems in their lives and future generations if not recognized and processed.
RESOURCES in the US
National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org 800-799-SAFE (7233) or Text “START” to 88788
RAINN (National Sexual Assault Hotline) https://www.rainn.org/
Child USA The Think Tank for Child Protection https://childusa.org/
Alienation Industry https://www.alienationindustry.com/
National Resource Center of Domestic Violence https://www.nrcdv.org
National Network to End Domestic Violence https://nnedv.org
Operation Safe Escape https://safeescape.org
Crisis Text Line: Text 741741
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453
Safe Helpline, Sexual Assult: 1-877-995-5247
LGBTQ National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564
National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929
RESOURCES outside the US
The Trauma and Mental Health Report resource page https://trauma.blog.yorku.ca/resources/
Victim Focus https://www.victimfocus.com/
Dr. Charlotte Proudman https://www.charlotteproudman.com/
Coercive Control Films
Alice, Darling. Dir. Mary Nighy. Lionsgate 2023
No Ordinary Love. Dir. Chyna Robinson. 2021
Coercive Control Books
Lundy Bancroft - Why Does He Do That
Evan Stark - Coercive Control: The Entrapment of Women in Personal Life
Evan Stark - Children of Corecive Control
Emma Katz - Coercive Control in Children’s and Mother’s Lives
Rachel Louise Snyder - No Visible Bruises
Jane Monckton Smith - In Control: Dangerous Relationships and How they End in Murder
K.L. Randis - Spilled Milk
Shannon Thomas - Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse
Family Court Books
Keith Harmon Snow - The Worst Interest of the Child
David Mandel - Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers
Maralee McLean - Prosecuted but not Silenced (Based on a True Story) (Fiction/Non-Fiction)
Jill Jones Soderman - Family Court Corruption
Lundy Bancroft - In Custody: A Carrie Green Novel (and many more) (Fiction)
Kerry Hernandez - Termination Hope Based on a True Story (Fiction)
Amy Polacko and Dr. Christine M. Cocchiola - Framed: Women in the Family Court Underground (Release Date Oct. 1, 2024)
Other Books
Dr. Nadine Burke Harris - The Deepest Well
Dr. Gabor Mate - The Myth of Normal
Angelina Jolie, Amnesty International - Know Your Rights (US Edition)
Investigative Journalists, Forensic Psychiatrists, Research Psychologists
Grant Wyeth - Investigative Journalist- His articles can be found on https://substack.com/
The articles I recommend reading first:
The Facilitating System of the Family Court
Domestic Violence_ A Hobbesian Dilemma
The Best Interests Of The Abuser
Dr. Bandy X. Lee - Her articles can be found on https://medium.com/
The articles I recommend reading first:
Beware Family Court Doublethink and Newspeak
The Hidden ‘Genocide’ of the Family Courts
Dr. Emma Katz - Her articles can be found on https://substack.com/
The articles I recommend reading first:
Explaining Coercive Control to People who Don't Quite Get It_ A Series 1, 2, & 3
Just in from Family Court_ Father NEGLECTED His Children Because He Coercively Controlled their Mother
Domestically Violent Men Describe the Benefits of Abusing Women and Children
Childrens Thoughts About Their Domestic Violence Perpetrating Fathers
Family Courts: Highlighting the Voices of Abused Mothers_ A Series 1 & 2
Why Domestic Violence and Abuse Victims and Survivors Deserve All Our Respect and Support
Biderman’s Chart of Coercion
I also have a list of healing books recommended as selfwork in session.
I will use my expertise to assist you to develop awareness. I will educate, recommend, and sometimes advocate solutions regarding your individual situation from awareness to recovery to thriving.
This type of consulting is not for everyone. Please book a discovery session to learn more about my consulting services.